Sex Really Can Be Fun

While I’m on the topic of Sin City, did you know that, according to The New York Times, May 29, 2008, people are having more sex but experiencing less joy?  Seems that the glut of explicit sex manuals leaves little to the erotic imagination as they seems more like learning the computer or taking an IT course. If books aren’t enough, there are retreats (usually coed) focused on teaching pleasure, usually to the woman.  Actually seems sexist to me. Why is it assumed that a guy wouldn’t want the same opportunity or doesn’t need the help? Or are really back to the story of O? by Anne Desclos (under the pen name Pauline Reage)? As a sexpert I am committed to reminding participants that it’s the fun of the process that gets you where you want to go. Put down that teaching manual, have some fun and let your imagination flow. Sex is not another task to be added to your list. Sex really can be fun.